Karma can simply be defined as fate or destiny. For those who subscribe to the ideas of karma, there is an overwhelming belief that the actions we do today, affect the things that come to us in the future. When it comes to finding love, karma can play an important role in the life lessons each relationship is there to teach us.
But what happens when one has ended a relationship and yet the residue of the ex makes one inclined to return to that past relationship? Is it karma pointing one in the direction of self-improvement or a weakness to return to the familiar?
Many of us know of someone who has been in a relationship, has ended it (or had it ended for them) and through many phone calls, text messages and tears have managed to work it out and start all over again. We see examples of this in real life as well as in the media (think Carrie and Mr. Big). There are multiple ideas. Some think it is the grass is always greener effect where someone leaves thinking they will do better only to realize that the person they were with was ideal. Others feel that it is better to stay in an unhealthy relationship rather than be alone. Even if the ex is bad, at least they allow for human interaction. On a more philosophical level, it could be that the person returning to an ex has a deep connection that is unexplainable and yet intrinsically knows that this connection transcends the difficulties that caused the break-ups.
Because those in a relationship often have too narrow a view of the potential pros and cons of their mate, it is advisable to seek out someone who can offer future insight. We are all familiar with the daily horoscope which gives a generalized view of our day, our week, our year, but what if there is a quest for a more detailed look at why this person who we’ve left still lingers in our senses and makes us want to try again? The next step would be to consult an actual psychic.
A psychic can seem too New Age for some, but is basically someone who has the ability of extra sensory perception. This means they can see beyond the perceived facts and use a number of tools to gauge whether this person is the one or simply a stumbling block that must be gotten over in order for one to continue their search to find love. They can also answer many of the questions we have whether it be why one returns to an ex, what sort of future is in store for the relationship or if the person seeking advice needs to reconsider the relationship.
Serving as a sort of fortune-telling therapist, the psychic can guide the individual through the muddy waters of their past relationship offering insight into why the relationship does or does not work. They can also suggest why the particular person has a repeated desire to return to their ex. Often, people begin relationships before they are ready, and through a series of dating experiences, we learn what it is that we want and need in order to be in a successful partnership with someone else. Consulting with a psychic can help the individual consider all the reasons this relationship has come to them and what they are to learn from it in order to either go to the next level or move on in their quest to find true love.
If we believe that karma (fate or destiny) brings people into our lives, then we have to ascertain that karma attracts those that are a result of what we have done and if we have not been our best selves, then it is wholly possible that the freshly-ended relationship we are pondering may be the result of how we treated someone in a past relationship. Wanting to return to a bad relationship can be that deep down we are aware of our own need for karmic retribution. Psychics can offer solutions as well, but one must make certain that the psychic they are consulting with has their best interest at heart. While many psychics make their living serving as a channel for which future information is given, it is necessary to find someone with whom you feel comfortable on many levels. You must feel comfortable paying this person and trust that they are good at what they do. The best suggestion is to consult with friends who have used psychics. If you have none (and that is possible), you might need to do a bit of research and see who the well-respected psychics are in your city. It can be a long involved process, but if it means finding the right person, it is well worth the time commitment.
Once a psychic has been found, they can often explain those unanswered things that happen to us such as the constant running into an ex or their complete disappearance from our lives. Many psychics agree that the paths we are on intersect when we have something to learn from each other. Psychics can help decipher and clarify what the Universe is telling us or even more so, what we are sensing, feeling and what the feelings of the ex are. It can be quite helpful in processing the remains of a past relationship and why the past is still in the present thus affecting the future.
Finding love can be difficult. Understanding the feelings of a past relationship can make one a bit insane. Consulting with a psychic can aid the individual in learning more about their own perceptions while offering guidance whether to try and work things out or move forward, think of it as a daily love horoscope tailored just for you.